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help! totally confused but at the same time so excited!

im 22 and pregnant, ive had to move home, leave all my friends, the father doesnt want to know and i just feel completly lost. my parents are fairly old so i cant really talk to them. i havent even got a midwife up here yet! im so confused with all the benefits and housing and nobody seems to want to help or put me in the right direction. all i want is to be independent and prepared for this baby. any advice? or just a little hope it will all get easier? x

 

Posted on 04/08/2008 16:13:10

i just posted a message to another girl, i'll copy and paste it here, hope it helps

job centre will tell tell you about all the benefits you're entiled to, and you need to get yourself on the council housing list i thats the route you're planning on going down, then when they offer you a house (which might take a while) you'll need to go to your local housing office to apply for housing benefit, because you work under 16 hours you should be entitled to full housing benefit, that's what i did xxx

Posted on 04/08/2008 16:31:08

Hang in there hun, contact the job center or the CAB for advice, if you ever want to chat i'm on the friends forum hun, so don't sit there being lonely i'll always replie to any messages xxxxx

Posted on 04/08/2008 20:26:42

hey caroline, im kinda in the same position just moved from scotland to england dont no any1 and fell preg now24weeks dont no any1 ere only got me mum so very hard, im also on benefits so can help you any way as no what to do etc, my email is - kirstymorrison52@hotmail.com will help/talk to ya. tc n dnt worry it'l sort out hun xx

Posted on 05/08/2008 12:52:04

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