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Relationships during pregnancy

letting partner down :(

hi i am 19 weeks pregent and i feel as though i am really letting my partner down all the time. we live 140miles apart and try talk a few times a day, how ever i have been feeling so run down and under the weather that i find i cant talk to him as much or for as long due to having bad migranges a lot and sometime having ear ach, i feel like he doesnt understand and there for that i am letting him down as he just want to talk. i am worried i might loss him and that tis the last thing i wont but i also cant just sit on the phone or msn all the time to him atm.
any advie welcome.

Posted on 14/01/2012 13:32:11

Hiya, Im sure if you explain to him he will understand im pregnant with my second child and im only 5 1/2 maybe 6 weeks and im really struggling with this pregnancy and im actually scared my husband hates me already (Only been married 7weeks) but im so tired and my boobs kill,keep getting headaches i cant cook cause the smell of cooking makes me sick and i keep having bleeds so i keep moaning about that!! But I sat him down last night and explain how i was feeling and that its not easy and today he has woken up and done all my housework taken the dog for a walk and run me a bath. So when you do talk to him next just explain to him how u feel and he should understand xxx

Posted on 14/01/2012 13:41:10

ok thank you, this is my second but his first and i am so much worse then with my last, i dont think it helps him not being here so we dont really see each other and he cant help which he keeps saying he wants to, but tbh that pisses me off know he cant and when he is here he does nnothing.

Posted on 14/01/2012 13:47:16

So i have heard that the 2nd is always a harder pregnancy than the first cause obviously u still have your first to look after. Last week my husband was just sitting on the sofa all weekend so by sunday i was pissed off to the max so i just shouted at him till i was blue in the face and then later on i blamed the hormones so maybe try that xx

Posted on 14/01/2012 13:50:37

lol, thank you so much, i am glade it not just me that is finding the second one harder, not that i am glade your finding it harder that is, hope all goes well for you

Posted on 14/01/2012 13:52:54

Thankyou and yes this one has defo been harder already been having bleeds no end of stuff had an emergency scan already got another scan in a couple of weeks to find out why i keep bleeding and stress of having a 2year old and a husband that works difficult hours so dont worry i know just how u feel my husband works diffrent hours every week so I dont really get a chance to see him and recently when i have seen him iv been a right moody cow lol xx

Posted on 14/01/2012 13:57:24

 

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