Forum : Pregnancy

thats men for u hun they will never understand what its like keepin the house and kids running think its a breeze and like i say to my partner id give u a week doin what i do and then see how you feel! i mean he does do little things but he doesnt see really what i do he would if i stopped though. my first is 22 months and now 15 + 4, and after loosing my mum last year i really do wonder how i keep goin! what u need to do is do little things to take ur mind off things go for walks and do stuff u enjoy, and if u need his help ask for it cos sometimes it is the only way. the early days are the worst i didnt know what to do with myself the first 3 months but it does get easier by about 13 weeks less emotion and stuff so enough of my wafflein chin up and hope this helps xxx

thnks its just good to no im not on my own never felt like this first time round.. i feel like i got double the hormones this time. i cry at the stupidest thing all he has to do is say something to me nd i burst out crying, ive had 2 miscarriages so he nos im constantly worrying about this pregnancy and every cramp i get in my stomach i worrying incase its a sign of losing this baby he just dont seem to get it or understand what im going through.

if i ask him to do something hell just say ive been at work all day im tired, he seems to think being pregnant running round after my daughter and doing house work is easy some days im that tired i just want to lie down take it easy but if i do this he just moans at me for not sorting the house out i just feel like im stuck in a rut and dont no what to do to get out of feeling like this. hopefully wont go on for much longer as you said it should get easier i just want this constant feeling of being on my own too hurry up and go i dont no how much longer feeling like this i can take. ive tried telling my partner but its like talking to a brick wall :(

sounds like u need a day off! can anyone have ur little girl for u so u can av a rest, a bit of u time to relax u really do need it! stress isnt gud for the baby know how you feel i had a misscariage in sept and it is a worryin time untill you reach that milestone well i say that and i still worry now even though ive ad 2 scans! will they do an early one for u i ad mine at 8 weeks it does help a bit? i wish men were a bit more understanding of how demanding pregnancy is for us i know its worth it in the end but its not easy sometimes. can anyone talk to him for u sounds like u need some support friends or family just to hint for him to help a bit u know untill u av more energy? well i do hope u feel better soon xxx

I totally know where you are coming from mate, me and my hubby have 3 young children (7,nearly 4 & 21 months). I am now 31 weeks preggers with our 4th. I have to do the school run 3 times a day, plus do the housework, and go to shops if needed. My hubby has a new job, he does 5 days on & 5 off, so most of the time he works weekends, which isn't great as he doesn't see kids at weekends & doesn't finish work til 6.45pm. So yeah most of the time its me taking care of the kids with little help from him. I have also 3 older girls from before, and the middle one helps me out, plays in garden with them,if im cooking or something. I don't remember the last time me and hubby went out for an evening, then again having not alot of money doesn't help either lol.

I really understand what you mean im 28 weeks pregnant, and nearly all the day i just want a snuggle. I just want him to help me feel good to feel wanted, dont get me wrong i love my fiance so much and i know he loves me but sometimes its just nice to know that they care and just want to spend the quality time with you before the baby comes because things will never be the same again. My fiance likes to sit n the computer playing card games and when i just ask him for some attention it feels like a massive effort to him, WOW this has really made me feel a little better i havent stopped crying writing this on here i think im getting a bit depressed.....