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Relationships during pregnancy

Really confused

When you are pregnant you go off sex...fact. If your partner is looking at soft porn/adult sites does this mean he will cheat and am I over-reacting by going mad at him?

 

Posted on 30/07/2008 05:19:30

Hi, you don't neccessarily go off sex, I appreciate it's awkward to find a comfortable position though, my boyfriend and I were active all the way through my pregnancy. Some suggest female orgasm can lead to a content baby because of the hormones released. Also sex is the best inducer of labour! I think there's no harm in looking at soft porn/adult sites or mens mags, at least he's not out in nightclubs picking up girls. Don't give him a rough time about it, you'll need his support when the baby arrives but remember your pregnancy won't last forever. Maybe it's worth you posting on the dads' site to get some feed back from a male perspective? Take care. x

Posted on 30/07/2008 08:44:40

Hi, you don't neccessarily go off sex, I appreciate it's awkward to find a comfortable position though, my boyfriend and I were active all the way through my pregnancy. Some suggest female orgasm can lead to a content baby because of the hormones released. Also sex is the best inducer of labour! I think there's no harm in looking at soft porn/adult sites or mens mags, at least he's not out in nightclubs picking up girls. Don't give him a rough time about it, you'll need his support when the baby arrives but remember your pregnancy won't last forever. Maybe it's worth you posting on the dads' site to get some feed back from a male perspective? Take care. x

Posted on 30/07/2008 08:48:25

HI hun, a ot of the time i didn't fancy sex either, i was too tired and feeling sick, though that doesn't mean we never made love at all, we just had to pick our moments haha, at least he's not gone looking else where, though it doesn't do much for the ego if he leaves the mags ect laying around. I don't think i would of apprieciated it if my hubby had done it, but then were all different. good luck hun xxx

Posted on 30/07/2008 10:49:00

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