Forum : Pregnancy

ur not going mad! ive gone off sex and found that my partner had been on porn sites and i flipped i was even thinking of leaving him which was a over reaction lol i dont think it means he will cheat at all so dont worry about that.
and if porn bothers u then he shouldnt look at it.

I have to say my sex drive comes and goes and has done all the way through this pregnancy, now at 33weeks my boyfriend refuses to do anything to me cos hes scared about hurting the baby (and I think most guys are the same) I don't know if he's been looking at porn and that but I do know he jacks off a lot (sorry if that term offends anyone) and to be honest I'm happy that he does that because I think it means he's less likely to cheat because he hasn't got all that pent up sexual tension or whatever it is blokes have.
I can understand why you might be mad at him but be straight up and ask him if he has an issue with the fact you aren't feeling up to sex...I was really surprised how OK with it my boyfriend was because he didn't want to hurt me or the baby. I think as long as you still show interest in him and let him know you think hes sexually attractive still, even though you don't feel like it everything will be fine. Just talk to him bout it :)
Oh and let me just say this is coming from someone who was having sex daily right up until I was about 2 months pregnant and suddenly wasn't interested so I get your worry!!

Hi i think most women at some time go of sex ive got 12 wks left and ive been of sex for what seems to be years!!!!!im sure your partner didnt mean to offend you in any way bye looking at those sites xxx