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Miscarriagecan any one relate to what im saying?
hiya, erm...i dont reli know how to say this so im just gunna come out and say it.....
i am 19years old and im pregnant with my 2nd child (due on the 14th of feb 09) and im reli excited, however i lost my 1st child when i was 17......i had a gorgous little girl called rhianna morgan abley, she was born on the 28th feb07 but sadly (i dont understand to this day why) she didnt cry when she was born, god needed another angel and he too my baby....not a day goes by when i dont think about her, shes my life, everything i do i do it for her....when i lost her i didnt think i could get back on with my life i just wanted to go with her...i wanted to be with my baby so much, but as much as it still hurts today, time got me through it and im pregnant again (13weeks nearly) and im just so scared its going to happen again. im excited but at the same time i feel guilty on rhianna, i dont want her thinking her mammy is replacing her.....she made me a mammy and i never want to take that away from her.....my emotions are all over and i just need some one to talk to.....but with this been a very sensitive subject not only to me, but to other woman that this has happend to, i find it hard to start a conversation with people about about it. so please if you know anything that could help please would you write back.....
thankyou for listerning to me, emma xxx
Hi emma, I have a real good friend who had a baby that was still born, it took her a
very long time to get over that but now she has another child and when abigail her
little girl was born she to felt real guilty for loving the baby but as you've said
time has helped and hopefully by the time you give birth to your 2nd child you will
not be feeling as guilty as you do now. Noone and nothing will every replace your little
girl but hopefully time will help you love your future child and I bet you will be the
best mum ever so take care and enjoy the fact that your going to be a mum again xxx
hi sweet
my heart goes out to you. i havent been through what you have been through.
i understand you feel guilty about your new baby. you will never forget Rhianna she is still
your 1st baby. she would want you to enjoy her new brother or sister.
your emotions are going to be all over the place. i lost a twin when i was pregnant with my daughter and my daughter is 7 now of course i do think what if i had 2.
i now have 4 children. i hope it all works out for you hun. thinking of you, hugs xxx
hi emma, i hope ur pregnancy is going well im due feb 13th. if u need to talk hun then u talk there are plenty of us who will listen no one would think ur replacing ur beloved rhianna so dnt feel guilty ,rhianna has a special place in your heart and always will no matter how many children you have that will never change. im sure rhianna would want to see her mummy happy with her lill bro or sis im sure she knows shes always in ur heart n always in your thoughets (soz cant spell) if u want a chat or just need get things of ur chest then feel free to mesage me hun. take care xxx
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Posted on 07/08/2008 20:10:27