Forum : Pregnancy

Hey. I dont have any advice per se, but first congratulation that your expecting. I was exactly the same as you, I had two miscarriages and when I was pregnant for the third time I wouldnt go to to the toilet coz I was so scared id see blood so I know exactly how you feel. All I can say is that third pregnacy was fine and I did, after having been through miscarriages, go on to have a little girl, so please dont feel like you will lose this baby because im sure everything is fine and you will have a beatiful baby. I know its hard not too worry but the stress wont help at all and you cant keep expecting things to go wrong. Like I said not really advice but yoou do have three children so you know its not always going to go wrong and I hope in 8 or so months time you have another beautiful baby. Xx

thank you x x

Thats ok. How far gone are you. Are you anywhere close to your 12 week scan coz at least then youll know everythings ok and youll be able to relax and enjoy the pregnancy.

i m only 4 weeks it was a big shock for me and my husband got an appointment to see the doc on tues x x

Hi, its only natural to worry after you've suffered losses and no matter what anyone says I'm sure that you won't relax until your baby is in your arms. I lost a baby 3 years ago and when I fell pregnant again I was terrified and then had bleeding on and off and other problems in the pregnancy but despite all that my son was fine! Fingers crossed all goes well for you, all you can do is try to relax and stay positive, the first 12 weeks will probably feel like 12 years lol but hopefully after your first scan you'll be able to relax a bit. They may give you an early scan if you were really worried given your history.
I'm sure that all will be well, congratulations! xxx

Hi, I know how you feel, at least you have children already.
I just found out I'm pregnant for the 5th time, I have lost 4 so far and after a load of tests they can't find anything wrong which is so frustrating in a way. I have just started to take a Progesterone supplement and hope this will help but it doesn't take the worry away. I'm like you, every trip to the loo is scary...well if I make it past 5 weeks, then 6 and then 7 I will be further than before so fingers crossed.
All the best for you :) x

good luck to u i hope u get ur muched wanted baby soon xx

I hope all will be fine for you. Congratulation.

Hey just stay strong and try not to think about it to much or u will get to stressed and thats not good for u or the little one growing inside u. I know how u feel as i had a misscagage october just been and i was so upset and hurt by it as i had been rrying for my second child for other a year but i then thought of it as well i have my beautiful daughter and thats was all that matterd as she was ment to be one of three when i found out i was pregnant nearly 4years ago now but ive just found out im pregnant again and cudnt be happier and im worried i will lose it but all i can do is hope i dont and keep smile and my daughter still needs.me like ur children need u keep ur chin up x