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hi Shelly dont beat yourself up about it unfortunately not everything in life goes to plan and that includes having babies.
it was not your fault that you ended up with pre-eclampsia and you certainly had no control over what happened with your body theese are the risks involved with having a baby and no one can control what happen's in a pregnancy it's NOT your fault and you shouldnt feel guilty.....im certain your family also will have seen it that way and would be accepting of the fact that you had no control of the situation and unfortunately theese things happen im sure they hold you in no way responsible for what happened.......i understand that it must have come as a bit of a shock and that it's probably just hitting home now but if you continue to feel that way or start feeling low make sure you have a chat with your gp/health visitor it may be that you have a slight case of baby blue's where your hormones go a little nutty and you can feel depressed/guilty ans out of sorts xxxx