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if you dont think it is safe and you dont like it, i would move her hun. it may be difficult at first but at her age she will most likely find other friends and gradually stop missing the old ones.(this sounds horrible but its true) ... otherwise whats stopping you keeping in touch with her friends at her current nursery and having them round to play etc, but still sending her to the new nursery? x x x

if you think your daughters safety is being put at risk i would move her, like the last post said she will make new friends and may even enjoy the new nursery more.

I have to agree with the ladies above, if her saftey is in doubt move her, it might well be difficult in the short term but she will make new friends and as laura said, if she has particular friends you could invite them round for play dates at your place sometimes or meet at a local park ect. Good luck xxxx

Thanks for your comments I have decided to move my daughter, will let you know how the move goes Fingers crossed x

Well my lo went for her first visit of an hour today without me it didnt go to well she was really upset when I picked her up, I feel so guilty for putting her through this as she was happy were ahe was before but I just feel in the long run she will be better at this new nursery. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to do I keep getting upset thinking that I putting her through this just for me.

hi hun you have done what any mother would do and put your daughter in a safe enviroment there will be tears of course its new, she will get used to it. you have done the best thing. just give it a little bit more time it will get better.keep going! xxx

Thankyou so much dbeech that was just what I needed to hear right now, I think I finding it harder as I 30wk preegnant and hormones are everywhere and want to get her settled before baby comes. My lo visiting again on mon so will let you know, thanks again for the support.

hello my daughter had her 1st half day today after 3 1 hour visits and she was fine and really enjoyed herself, so guess I was worrying for nothing, I know there will probably be some ups and downs but feel like we over the traume of it all. Thankyou to everyone for the support and advice it really helped me with my decision.

aah thats so nice to hear glad it went well, im sure you feel more relaxed now.
concentrate on pregnancy now knowing little one is safe and happy, all the best!
hugs xxx

Hello just thought i would update in case anyone going through what I did with nursery. My daughter has been at her new nursery for nearly 6 weeks now and I have to say although it was the hardest thing I have ever had to do it is the best decision I have made. I would never have said my daughter was un happy were she was but she is definatly happier at the new nursery, I guess my advice to anyone that finds them selves in a similar situation is to trust your instincts. Thanks again to all who left advice it really helped get me through.x x x