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My Mum is leaving my Dad! My Dad isnt a well Man at all! He has got Vertigo, Spondulosis, Dibetes, everything you can name! My Dad isnt capable off looking after himself!

My Mum doesnt love my Dad anymore because off all the illness! He is stressing everyone out! The Doctors cannot find anything else wrong with him! He has been up Hospital by Ambulance loads off times and always get discharged a few hours later! The other week my Mum begged them to keep him in as we cannot cope with him being at home anymore! He quit his Job and since then he has got worse! He isnt elegiable for a restbite care or any homehelp!

All he does is lay on the sofa watching blinking Cricket... (Ive never seen so much Cricket in my life)! He doesnt do anything around the house!

He doesnt eat unless Me or my Mum cook! He has said that it wouldnt take him long to take all his pills before! And thats what im scared off when Me and my Mum do eventually leave! That he will do something stupid!Its like looking after another Baby most off the time!

He has pushed Me away, i love him but not loads anymore because he takes everything out on Me! And regually shouts at Me!

I have so much to say about this but not sure how to word it or say it, so its just coming out how im thinking about it, lol! Sorry about ranting!

I also have Depression because off all the family problems and my ex causing trouble!

I'm scared for my Cats as well because we cannot take them with us and he doesnt feed them, its always myself or my Mum!

I'm at breaking point and i know i cannot be at this point because i have my daughter to thnk off!