Forum : Mums

hey sorry to hear your feeling a bit down have you spoke to your health visitor, i myself haven't got twins but i had my little girl when my son was 12 months old (there 3 &4 now) and i was very worried about going our as they both fed at different times, slept at different times and just the thought of remembering to pack stuff for my son jucie, milk snacks clothes and then stuff for my daughter bottles formula plenty of clothes - was enough to put me off!! i spoke to my health visitor and she told me about some mum and baby groups that i could go to and after a few weeks of thinking should i shouldnt i, i decided to try it i found a lot of the other ladies were worrying too (even the ones who only had one baby) i started meeting up with some of them regularly they'd come to meet or i'd go to them!! ... have you got anyone who could give you a hand maybe watch the babies whilst you get out for an hour or so on your own - i think me time is very important my friend had twins not so long a go and i give her a hand when i can sometimes i'll have both girls or sometimes i'll just take the one that way she can bond with the other, i also help her with her cleaning etc if she needs it :)
good luck hunn hope your feeling a bit brighter soon xxx