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hey laura

i was told in jan i couldnt have children but then found out in feb i was pregnant, unfortunatley i lost my baby/twins as they told me in march.

i was lucky and got pregnant four weeks after miscarriage and i am now 18 weeks pregnant.

i know it's hard but you need to try and think positive (i really understand how worried you are as i was a nervous wreck for weeks) once you get to your 12 weeks you will find it alot earlier to relax.

how far are you?

katie

Hi Laura, I lost a baby 3 years ago and was terrified when I fell pregnant again that something would go wrong, but despite serious stress, bleeding on and off and other problems my baby boy was absolutely fine :-))))
Its normal to worry but chances are that this time everything will be ok, the first 12 weeks will drag of course but try to relax and enjoy it. Your midwife will take good care of you knowing your history, mine was brilliant and gave me extra appointments knowing that I was extremely worried.
Congratulations to you both! :-))xxxx

Hey,congratulations! I know exactly how you feel, I miscarried in april and fell pregnant again in june. I am now 10 weeks pregnant and all I can think about is my 12 week scan on the 17th! When I first found out I was pregnant I didn't want to feel excited but now im thinking more positively and just can't wait to see my baby at my first scan. I did feel a bit more relaxed after i had seen my midwife and talked to her about all my worries. xxx

Hi,
I had a MC in Feb and then fell pregnant again in March (found out in Apr). . .It is only normal to worry about every twinge especially after a MC but I am now 24 weeks pregnant and as you have seen by the other posts it is entirely possible to have a normal pregnancy after a MC . . I only stopped worrying about MC when I could feel my LO's movements regularly.
Like Buffy said, talk to your MW and if she is any good she will give you extra appointments to ease your worries! . .my MW offered me extra appointments to listen to the babies heartbeat until I was feeling the movements regularly but only after my first scan and you could always ask for an early scan!
Take care
Lea xx

hiya i am 7 weeks pregnant and worrying about everything as i suffered a miscariage in june and found out about this pregnancy at end of august i have not been able to get excited yet i just keep hoping its going to be ok this time i cant wait to get my scan to put my mind at rest

hi. i was told on christmas day my baby had no heartbeat at 10 weeks. i have a d&c tomorrow. we are totally devastated but hoping we will get pregnant again soon. everyone here seems to have got pregnant quite fast and has given me hope. can i just ask did many of you wait at least 2 months to try again as i have been told i will have too. thank you in advance and sorry everyone here who has suffered a lose.