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hi all
sorry ive not been on for a while but after all the tests and scans i had they fond out i had an ectopic pregnacy.ive had it removed and one of my tubes we absolutly gutted. im starting to wonder if we will ever have a baby. it is so sad and i dont no how i can go thorough all the hurt and pain again, after the miscarrige i had in janurary, im starting to feel its my fault and i no deep down its not but im starting to feel a faliure as a women and a wife!!!! i didnt think we would go through this again after jan but once again ive lost our baby i feel so alone and so scared we will never have a baby.......
i wish all of u the best of luck
Hi I am so so sorry, you must be devastated. You will have a baby one day I'm sure, my friend only had one tube and she conceived within two months so don't lose hope. Just give yourself time to grieve for the babies you have lost. I also thought I'd never have another baby as an older mum and after losing a baby girl at 15 weeks but I went on to have my son who is 16 months old and we still look at him every day and can't believe we've got him.
You're certainly not a failure and unfortunately nature is very cruel sometimes, you have been very unlucky but I'm sure that you will be a mummy one day very soon.
Big big hugs to you and your partner xxx
hi!
my heart goes out to you in this terrible hard time ur in my thoughts and prayers.
but dont lose hope u will be a mummy. ur not afailure as wife or am other because neither a miscarriage or an ectopic pregnancy is ur fault or from anything uv done its just one of those terrible tragedies that has no sense behind it!
my cousin suffered through 5 miscarriages and had a damaged falopian tube (not sure what from) but she now has a beautiful healthy daughter.
good luck i hope u heal quickly xxx
Hey I'm Very sorry about it. My prayers for you! You will have a baby soon. Jus start preparing your health for it. I'm sure your Partner will support you in all ways. Take your time for now. Get back on the healthy track and have a cute lil baby soon.
God Bless!!
thanks for all the lovely things u have all said xxxx
i will happen for you, my sister had 3 miscarriages then went on to have 2 girls. best thing you can do is stay strong and possitive.
best of luck x
Im sorry for your loss. U can,t blame yourself for this. I had an eptopic 2 yeasrs ago and had a tube removed, then a year ago i had a miscarriage. I thought i would never be able to have another baby. but i now have a lovely 7 month old boy. u have to think positive and look after yourself. I wish u all the luck in the world. stay strong.
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Posted on 21/10/2011 12:51:18