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So sorry to hear what you have been through. I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks in October. I then had 1 period and fell pregnant. I am now nearly 11 weeks gone. There is no reason you shouldn't go on to have a healthy pregnancy and baby. Usually a miscarriage this early is a problem with the baby so doesn't mean you did anything or that it would happen again. Give yourself time and when you are ready, try again. You will find that people don't know what to say so avoid you or don't talk about it. Speak to your partner about it or come on here and talk but don't bottle it up!! Thinking of you and here if you need me! X x

Me to emzy im sorry to here of your miscarriage. I just wanted you to know that i was here to give you my kind regards. xxx

Im so sorry you lost your baby. I had two miscarriages at 6 weeks but went on to have a heathly girl, I know its hard to not worry that it will happen again but one miscarriage doesnt mean theyll all end like that. Ive said this before on other posts but I found you dont realise how many people do suffer miscarriages till you come on somewhere like this and they all go on to have normal heathy pregnancies. When the time is right it will happen for you. Xx

HI so sorry to hear of your loss but your have a strong chance of getting pregnant again after suffering a miscarriage, i unfortunately had an etopic pregnancy whereby I lost a fallopian tube & because of my age & losing a tube my chances of having a baby were greatly reduced, but Im glad to say i did get pregnant & we now have a beautiful healthy 10 month old girl, the key is not to get too stressed about it every month its hard but it can make matters worse, if you want a chat send me a message & good luck :)

hi i lost my baby at just over 10 weeks on christmas day. i too have went through days of thinking get pregnant straight away or other days it will never happen again for me. it would have been my only child but i did get the comfort of being able to bury and name the baby. i made an appointment yesterday a month on to just talk over all my worrys and concerns with gp. he was great and told me the best thing i could do was relax and have fun in the bedroom (often). but emphazied the FUN..he put my mind at ease that i did nothing wrong and couldnt have prevented the miscarriage but there was no reason to think i couldnt concieve again, so talking over my fears have helped. do you have a good network of support around you?

my heart goes out to you. I had a miscarriage at 9 weeks. I just want to say i really feel for you. xx

hi,firstly i'm so very sorry for your loss,my heart goes out to you xx when my son was 8mths old i fell pregnant with our 2nd child,at 11 wks my sickness eased and i started to feel energetic and i put it down to approaching the 12wk mark when the midwifes tell u that u may start to feel a litle better,when i was 12 and a half wks gone we went to the hospital for a normal ruitene 12wk scan,on the monitor i saw my baby,very still and smaller than it should be,there was a light where the heart is and the lady told me that my baby had died,she measured my baby and i was told that i had lost my baby 2wks earlier,i had no idea that my baby had died,had no pains,no spotting or bleeding,i was devestated and my heart broke that day.i chose to go into hospital two days later and they stared off labour,after 6hours i deliverd my baby,i chose to do this as it gave me some comfort,it felt like i could say a proper goodbye by delivering naturally and it was respectful.i had a tattoo done with the date my baby was born and have a keepsake box that i often look through,even though still when i look at my scan pic i cry. having lost one child does not mean that u cant fall pregnant and have another child when u feel the time is right for you, when i fell pregnant with my daughter,i convinced myself the same thing was going to happen and i was so anxious,every day i worried about losing the baby but i carried full term and she was born healthy and well,i am pregnant again (13wks)and scan showed baby is doing well,im sure when u feel ready to try again u will fall,the drs told me not to worry or think too much about getting pregnant,it'll just happen,i wish you all the best,take care helen x

thankyou all 4 writing back 2 me it means alot 2 know that people care and have been through the same, sorry 2 say that like that i know its the worst thing to go through, but u know what i mean, thankyou again xxx

this is terrible ... I want to cry