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Hi men are hard work i have been with my partner for 4 years we have been married 1 i have a child from before and we have 1 together, i think he always has ago at my son and is not fair on him, he sometimes has ao at him for the smallest thing, yet my daughter he is not so bad with but he used to have ago because she was a mummys girl and always wanted me and not him. Why do they take things out on us when things are not our fault, i sometimes think here we go again, i can why you feel you cant take any more.

Dont they drive you mad!!!!

My partner went back work a week after i had my daughter as he was really busy at work, they first week he kept phoning to see how we both were and kept saying how he wishes he was still at home with us. My daughters now 19 weeks and things have changed so much i know he cares but he dont seem as interested as he did before we never go out as a family he'd rather go out with them from work or his mates and that makes me feel down. Dont it just drive you mad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My parents alway argued in front of me when i was young and i hated it. So when my husband and i decided to have children we came up with some rules for us to follow. We always try not to lose our tempers with each other infront of the children and if it gets bad we take a break from each other then both say sorry even if its the others fault then talk about it when the children have gone to sleep plus weve both carmed down by then. i know its the simpest thing and the hardest thing to do sometime but you need to talk to your husband about anything thats bothering you cause if you dont a small thing soon turns into a very big problem. Hope it all works out for you.

Ive been married for 2 years and weve got a 9 month old baby girl 2 geda. Me n my hubby argue nearly all the time and I get frustrated with his usual habits. He's lazy and not so much as understanding as he use to be. Men do not understand how we feel at times it seems and im finding out. For example I don't want sex but he does, I explain y he tells me he understands but really he don't!!!!!!!!!!!

i'm 17 weeks pregnant and my partner is still fussing over me when he's on his break he rings or texts me to see if i'm ok and i have eaten my lunch! he talks to my bump and has named him/her "bumpy". i couldn't wish for a better man. I have noticed that i will get a liitle irrate sometimes and have a go at my partner for something small but he just lets it go over his head. He wants a girl so i reckon she will wrap him round her little finger!