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Hi i'm also due on 5th Sep with my 3rd daughter. I had a 6 year age gap between my first and second and was really worried about number1 feeling pushed out. We tried to involve her in decision making so she felt she was playing her part and when she came to the hospital to collect me and her little sister there was a card and present there for her off the new baby to say thankyou for being a big sister which she was over the moon with. Once home she helped bath and feed and generally just got involved in as much as possible and she was fine thankfully.
You you will worry but as long as theres still cuddles and time out where possible with your first son then hopefully he will be ok.

hiya..i am due 2nd september and its my first pregnancy. but i do know how it is as my younger brother is 6 years younger than me. my mum used to always keep me close and just let me feel her tumm and asked what i would want...a brother or a sisiter...the more you get them involved, the less they'll feel left out. good luck with your pregnancy aswell.

hi im preg on no four my eldest is also 4yrs old and my youngest is 1and 2 they cant wait to have a little sister due 14th sept and buy her little presents like a cuddley teddie or sumthing my boys also get presents which only cost a pound but they think its off there sister my eldest as picked her first outfit and also sorted out the nursery with me so just try get them involved as much as u can x